Yes, He's Real

After my last post I received a ton of emails saying that they didn't know I even had a husband. Well, I haven't written about him on this blog for a couple of reasons.

One is that for the last several years things haven't been that great. We were both walking the fence during our daily lives as partners and in our marriage. We've both made mistakes, but in our time away from family, kids, business and every other chaotic aspect of our lives we do great.

The other reason I haven't written about him much is for his privacy and the fact that I didn't want anything I might have written taken out of context by anyone (as it has been far too often) and having more hot coals heaped upon our heads than we already have.

We have enough going on without the whispers and gossip of others that don't know the full story. If there is any couple out there that hasn't had problems I'd be really surprised. If there's any couple out there that thinks only one partner has been wrong, they're delusional. People have tended to read things into what I write without knowledge of the full situation. To those people I'd say, judge not lest ye be judged and let him without sin cast the first stone. Point being, none of us is perfect. We've all made mistakes. My husband and I are still here, we're still one. We love each other despite the flaws.

I've put together a slideshow to show you all that my husband, and my marriage, is indeed real. He's not an imaginary guy, but a real, live, breathing, tattooed (go figure), Harley riding, wife loving, Texan.

So here we are, and here we'll stay.