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The Reason For My Absence Revealed

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Hey guys, short explanation here. I've been gone for a bit, which you know. I've received many emails asking why my posting has been few and far between.

I won't go into vivid detail about what's happening, but I will answer some of the questions I've been asked.

Early last year I moved from my house into an apartment, and this July, after 26 years of marriage, I filed for divorce. Unfortunately, or fortunately, divorce was the only answer. My regret is that the collateral damage has been great and unintended.

My, then, attorney advised me not to write and insisted I run everything by her before I posted. With my intense dislike for censorship, I stopped writing. I wasn't going to have anyone tell me what I could say, and what I couldn't say.

A few weeks ago I fired her for various reasons, and am now facing my husband and his attorney solo. Probably not the best idea, but it's reality. We're all sick of fighting, arguing, and the emotional upheaval of the situation. My husband and I both want it to end so that some sort of normality can once again be gained.

The three of us met a couple of days ago, and I think we're going to be able to come to a resolution shortly. Should that happen, we will be able to avoid court and having a judge decide our future. That is what we both want.

Divorce is not an easy situation for anyone, especially the children. The roller coaster of emotion has been a difficult ride for everyone involved and I believe most of us want to work toward a mutual goal.

We're both moving on with our lives, and trying to come to terms with the past. I have been busy with things I hope to be able to disclose shortly. One of them has been in the works for about a year now, but the divorce, among other things, slowed the process considerably. We're back on track and filming will begin again shortly. It's exciting, and I'm looking forward to the adventure. I've also embarked on an entirely different venture, that's equally exciting, that I am eager to share with you all.

In the last year so many things have changed. I've moved out of Oregon, and will be moving again this weekend. I will still be on the West Coast, but cannot reveal my exact location for safety reasons.

Although the tribulations have been many, it will be nice to have a fresh start, and end the misconceptions, the turmoil, and the actions on both sides, that led to the decision to end our marriage. 

To the gossipers, the malicious hate mongers, that include both family and so called friends, you have revealed yourself fully, and both lives, not only mine, but my husband's as well, will be much better off with the termination of toxic relationships. I would suggest you find out facts, and not just rumors, before you begin frothing at the mouth. I also realize that gossiping, half truths, and outright lies are what some of you live for. You know who you are, and my children are not included in the people I am writing of.

I will not speak of the many problems that plagued my marriage for years, and I will not smear my husband, or do anything to damage his reputation with his friends, family, clients, and most of all our children.

For some reason tonight was the night I felt the time was right to offer you an explanation for my absence.

I shall soon be posting more and cluing you all in as to the upcoming projects I've been working on, and I genuinely hope, and I know you will, be as excited as I am about my future.

With much love, 


11 comments:

Kristy January 15, 2015 at 3:21 AM  

Glad you will feel less censored Diva. I hope everything will work out.

Robert Wiro January 15, 2015 at 6:18 AM  

Very well said Teri! I only hope that as acting as your own rep. you still get an amicable and just settlement.
I Love You!!

Dazee Dreamer January 15, 2015 at 9:13 AM  

Sending out good vibes. You rock. And I love that your changed your blog title to The Diva!

The Bipolar Diva January 15, 2015 at 9:28 AM  

Thanks guys. I love you all so very much. You're my support system and I really need your encouragement. I only hope I can be of some value to each of o=you should you need me :)

joanne January 15, 2015 at 3:04 PM  

glad to hear from you, we get worried you know! Best wishes on all things in your life, resolutions and the chance to put things behind you. This is the year of the Diva.

The Bipolar Diva January 15, 2015 at 9:33 PM  

Thank you Joanne! I'm going to do my best! :)

Claudia Schlottman January 16, 2015 at 9:24 AM  

The Year of The Diva! I like that. As always, sending loving support.

Rob-bear January 18, 2015 at 11:42 AM  

Crawled out of my den on a nice sunny day. World looks great. And there's a posting from you (which always makes me feel good).

Hope things keep going well for you. Me? I'm back to hibernating. See you in the spring (early or late, or whenever).

Blessings and Bear hugs, your Divaness!

The Bipolar Diva January 18, 2015 at 2:48 PM  

Rob, you are always such an encouragement to me. Sleep well through the rest of the winter my furry friend!

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