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Decisions Tested

Friday, August 18, 2017

What an amazingly, perfect day. Yes the AC went out, then had to have someone come out to repair what the first tech kinda messed up, water everywhere, but it was peaceful. So many things went south yesterday and today. It really tested us and our decisions, and we won.
 
This afternoon our gorgeous daughter bounced downstairs when she got home with an amazing smile that lit the room, my husband got home a bit early. He and I drove out to Papa Haydn in Sellwood for a cozy, quiet, dinner that ended with delicious Boccone Dolce and a slice of Chocolate Truffle cake. 
 
We talked, laughed, and enjoyed every second of being together. It truly is a wonderful life. Six weeks have flown by, and it is as if there was never day missed in nearly 30 years. Everything is so much better, so right. 
 
Our joint decisions not to allow negative people, or situations, into our lives or influence us, to close the door to people that cling to bitterness, to realize the mistakes of our past, and look to the brightness of our future, has made every thing we lost, learned, gained........it has all been worth it. 

To see how far we've come astounds me. We're both the same people essentially, but so much more wise, secure, certain, and committed.

We've realized the proper chain of priority that was before missing, and we will cling to it fiercely. 

Don't allow anyone tell you that you cannot learn from the past, change your future, and re-prioritize. You can if it means enough to you. You just have to start, throw fear out of the picture, and start. Remember, fear is a manufactured emotion, one that kills so much, one that we create ourselves and it keeps us in bondage. 
 
If you stay paralyzed in fear you will never know, or see, the very best there is waiting just around the corner. 

Take that step, be courageous, don't listen to the ones that want to keep you down. Ask yourself why another person would not want you to succeed. Generally it's because they are unhappy with themselves, their lives. Their happiness is their decision, just as yours is yours.
 
Make the decision. Step into the light and out of darkness. You'll be so happy you did. 

5 comments:

♡Molly♡ August 20, 2017 at 6:04 PM  

I think it's so awesome that guys are so happy together. I've read your blog for awhile but don't comment very often. I love how positive and upbeat you are! Jealousy doesn't look good on anyone. But for some reason some people thinks it does🙄 Take care!

♡Molly♡ August 20, 2017 at 6:04 PM  

I think it's so awesome that guys are so happy together. I've read your blog for awhile but don't comment very often. I love how positive and upbeat you are! Jealousy doesn't look good on anyone. But for some reason some people thinks it does🙄 Take care!

The Bipolar Diva August 21, 2017 at 11:18 AM  

Very true! Jealousy colors all sorts of things and warps an individuals view. You can tell who those individuals are, they tear people down instead of building them up. :) Thank you so much. Wishing you an incredible day!

Over 50 September 5, 2017 at 4:57 PM  

Many congratulations and bravo..............your journey has been one of depth and incredible honesty - enjoy all the moments.

The Bipolar Diva September 5, 2017 at 6:42 PM  

Thank you so much. It's been quite the experience for sure!

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